We learn in Alma that “if ye have faith ye hope for things which are not seen, which are true.” (Alma 32:21) Faith is the combination of hope and works. If either of those were absent in the equation then it wouldn’t be faith. We show faith in our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ by obeying the commandments, making and keeping covenants, and following the Spirit when prompted. Moroni said concerning faith in a prayer, “O Lord, thy righteous will be done, for I know that thou workest unto the children of men according to their faith…; wherefore thou workest after men have faith.” (Ether 12:29-30) This tells me that we must first do all we can. Sometimes when our righteous desire has not come to pass after doing so much, we wondering if we have done enough. These are the times we must then let go and allow our Savior to take over. Joseph Smith said, “Therefore, dearly beloved brethren [and sisters], let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power, and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his arm to be revealed.” (D&C 132:17) It is so important to believe in the power that is in Jesus Christ for those things to come to pass. The Lord knows what is best and will grant unto us what we ask, if it be right. Remember, we must work with God in all we do. And when we do, that is when we see miracles in our daily life. “For with God nothing shall be impossible.” Luke 1:37
Life, like a cobblestone pathway, is unpredictable and beautiful. Each person's path is unique, bumpy, and valuable. We experience things and meet people who change us. This is a blog about empowering you as you travel along your own cobblestone pathway.
Tuesday, April 30, 2019
How to Act in Faith
We learn in Alma that “if ye have faith ye hope for things which are not seen, which are true.” (Alma 32:21) Faith is the combination of hope and works. If either of those were absent in the equation then it wouldn’t be faith. We show faith in our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ by obeying the commandments, making and keeping covenants, and following the Spirit when prompted. Moroni said concerning faith in a prayer, “O Lord, thy righteous will be done, for I know that thou workest unto the children of men according to their faith…; wherefore thou workest after men have faith.” (Ether 12:29-30) This tells me that we must first do all we can. Sometimes when our righteous desire has not come to pass after doing so much, we wondering if we have done enough. These are the times we must then let go and allow our Savior to take over. Joseph Smith said, “Therefore, dearly beloved brethren [and sisters], let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power, and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his arm to be revealed.” (D&C 132:17) It is so important to believe in the power that is in Jesus Christ for those things to come to pass. The Lord knows what is best and will grant unto us what we ask, if it be right. Remember, we must work with God in all we do. And when we do, that is when we see miracles in our daily life. “For with God nothing shall be impossible.” Luke 1:37
Saturday, April 20, 2019
On the Third Day He Rose
The last week of the Saviors mortal life was filled with
many miracles, teachings, and blessings. It began with his triumphal entry into
Jerusalem after which he cleansed the temple and taught many precious truths including the Parable of the 10 Virgins. He instituted the sacrament as
an offering of Himself to His disciples while knowing that one of his closest
friends would betray Him. He spent the last week of His life showing love to
His neighbors only to be rejected and ridiculed by the very same people. What
does this teach me about my Savior? That His love is bigger than anything I can
comprehend and nothing I can say or do will take it away.
The last days of His life were of most importance. They were
the very reason He came to Earth. They
were His mission. They were vital to
each and every person’s existence and salvation who has or ever will come to
the earth. In Matthew 26: 36 we read “Then cometh Jesus with them unto a place
called Gethsemane, and saith unto the disciples, Sit ye here, while I go and
pray yonder.” Jesus was on the brink of the hardest thing He would ever
accomplish. He had to do it alone. If another shouldered the pain, the
sacrifice would not work. In Mosiah 16:13 we read “...remember that only in and
through Christ we are saved.”
He was foreordained, chosen. In our pre-mortal life we knew
that because of the demands of justice we could not return to our beloved
Heavenly Father unless those demands could be satisfied. We all shouted for joy
when it was announced “But, behold, my Beloved Son, which was my Beloved and
Chosen from the beginning, said unto me- Father, thy will be done, and the
glory be thine forever.” (Moses 4:2)
Walking to the Garden was no easy task. Jerusalem is built
on a hill. The way to Gethsemane was a rocky, uphill, narrow path. It much
symbolized the task at hand. Not to mention the meaning of the Garden.
Gethsemane means olive press. Olives come in plenty in Jerusalem. But to get
the oil, which was a healing ointment, they had to press the olives. Olives
were placed on a stone. Another stone was rolled over the top, over and over
again, until oil seeped out. It was much like what Christ experienced in the
Garden. He too was pressed and squeezed until he blead. The pain was
unimaginable. Elder Tad Callister said, “The Savior voluntarily let his
humanity take precedence over his divinity…Not once did he raise the shield of
godhood in order to soften the blows. Not once did he don the bulletproof vest
of divinity. That he also had godly powers did not make his suffering any less
excruciating, and less poignant, or any less real. To the contrary, it is for
this very reason that his suffering was more, not less, than his mortal
counterparts could experience. He took upon him infinite suffering, but chose
to defend with only mortal faculties, with but one exception- his godhood was summoned
to hold off unconsciousness and death that would otherwise overpower a mere
mortal when he reached his threshold of pain. For the Savior, however, there
would be no such relief. His divinity would be called upon, not to immunize him
from pain, but to enlarge the receptacle that would hold it. He simply brought
a larger cut to hold the bitter drink.” (The Infinite Atonement, p119)
As He knelt in the Garden, Jesus prayed, “O my Father, if it
be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless, not as I will, but as
thou wilt.” (Matthew 26:39) Christ knew of the pain he would suffer. But He also knew He had to do it. He did it because
He loved us. Sacrifice is the highest form of love.
Upon completing the first half of his foreordination, He emerged
from the Garden to find His disciples asleep. Yet, with love He said, “Rise,
let us be going; behold, he is at hand that doth betray me.” (Matthew 26:46) He
would be taken into custody by the guards of the high priest and then accused
of blasphemy and condemned to death before Pilate. The people did not know Him.
They could not see who He was and what He had come to do.
In a song called “Through His Eyes”, I wrote:
While nailed to the tree, with eyes so humble
He forgave the men who caused the trouble
“It is finished” were the last words He spoke
Then closed His eyes and ascended above
He died, my Savior with eyes so pure
That I may use His eyes to see
On the third day after His crucifixion, Christ rose from the
tomb. He had overcome death. Not just physical death but spiritual death as
well. He had saved all mankind from the terrible fate that would befall them had
His mission not been completed. Elder Todd Christofferson said, “By His
Atonement and Resurrection, Jesus Christ has overcome all aspects of the Fall…We
can have ultimate trust and confidence in His power to overcome all else and
grant us everlasting life.” (The Resurrection of Jesus Christ, April 2014)
Christ has satisfied the demands of justice that we too may return back to the
presence of Heavenly Father and live with both Him and Jesus Christ in the
Eternities. He overcoming death has allowed us to accomplish anything,
according to Gods will. “For with God nothing shall be impossible.” (Luke 1:37)
It is a blessing to know that life doesn’t end when our mortal experience it
over. Because of Christ we will continue to live and progress forever. We will
continue to experience joy and love as we go about doing good.
In the song “He is Risen” by Cecil Alexander, we sing:
He is risen! He is risen!
He hath opened heaven’s gate.
We are free from sin’s dark prison,
Risen to a holier state.
I am so grateful that I get to
live with my Heavenly Father and Savior again, if I do what He has asked so
many times: Come unto Me. I know that through the power of the Atonement and Resurrection
we are saved from the harshness of what could have been. But because Christ
love us so much, He chose to deliver us from that fate. I love Him with all my
heart. While conversing with the Apostles, the resurrected Savior gave them
this charge, which He also gives to us:
“All power
is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all
nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the
Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded
you: and, lo I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world.” (Matthew
28:18-20)
I know the
Lord is always with us because He loves us and therefor has engraved us upon His palms.
Saturday, April 13, 2019
Simplify, Simplify, Simplify
Have you ever had a million things running through your head
all at the same time and it seems you can never get anything done? And then you
end up forgetting things. I run into that problem all the time. Most people
deal with a large amount of stress in their lives. With the great invention of technology, in
addition to constant input of information, we also feel a need to stuff so much
into our lives. I had a friend brag to me once of how busy she was. But, I
wonder if it truly is necessary to be busy and doing all the time in order to
have a fulfilling life.
This past month was a whirlwind for me. I work fulltime plus
classes I was to further my education, extra circular activities, family,
friends, and I was just called to serve as relief society president in my ward.
And if that wasn’t enough, my health hasn’t been the best lately. Honestly, I
wasn’t sure how I was going to handle it all and take care of myself too.
And then I was reminded of what the Still Small Voice has
been repeating to me for such a long time, but not really listening when it
came to my own life: Simplify. Simplifying doesn’t just mean to remove things
from our lives. It’s stepping back and looking at what matters. It’s looking at what we really need and value
then cleaning out the rest.
There are many things that can complicate your life. The
Mormon Channel mentions a few ways such as possessions, time commitments, too
many goals, negative thoughts, debt or bills, habits, diet, hobbies, words,
screen time/media, and connections/relationships. It seems that because there
is so much to get done that we choose to multitask. Ironically, the more we
multitask, the less productive we will be.
Plus, it will raise our stress levels and lead to burn out. The best way
to solve this problem is simplifying.
Spring is always a great time to declutter. We can go
through our homes and personal lives and define what is of most value to us.
There must be a reason for choosing to include certain things and activities in
our lives. Elder Lynn G Robbins said, “Simplifying
our lives increases the probability of achieving the most important things in
life- the best things.”
Here are a few ways we can simplify our lives to make them
more meaningful and less stressful:
1-
Define a clear vision for your life and home.
Find out what you mostly value and choose things that support your vision.
2-
Buy less. Having more or “it all” only takes
away from our time, resources, relationships, and cleanliness. Buy what is
necessary and what you can afford.
3-
Create a schedule. An effective routine will
help to reduce stress because you will know what is expected of you each day.
Fill your days with those things that align with your vision and are necessary.
Be sure to make time for what matters most.
4-
Eat healthy. When we choose to leave out the unnecessary
foods, such as those that are refined and processed, from our diet, it allows
our bodies to work properly. We have more energy to use for those things that
matter. It is also a way to show ourselves that we matter and want to care for
the precious gift, our body, we have all been blessed with.
5-
Organize your home. When we surround our lives
with an environment that is clean and organized, we have more peace.
6-
Remember all things are done in order. Things
take time to accomplish. Be patient with yourself and others. Sometimes other
things must happen first before we can place another in our life. It’s always
good to remember: one thing at a time.
I’m sure we have all heard of the saying that less is more.
Taking out the unnecessary things that can complicate our lives gives us the
ability to fill it with things that will help us progress towards what is most
important. When Alma, in the Book of Mormon, was giving his son Helaman words
of council he told him, “Now ye may suppose that this is foolishness in me; but
behold I say unto you, that by small and simple things are great things brought
to pass…” (Alma 37:6). The more we simplify our life, the more great things
will be brought to pass in a way that is aligned with the Gospel of Jesus
Christ.
So many are looking for a magical wave of a wand to take the
stress out of our life. The magic
happens when we learn to simplify our lives by taking out those unnecessary
things. It’s amazing how much happier and fulfilled we will be when we are not “busy”
but rather engaged in a good cause.
Sunday, March 31, 2019
Why are we asked to serve?
In his mortal ministry, the Savior showed us how to serve with love, compassion and faith. He went forth helping any in need who he met on his path. The Lord has called us to do as he did. President Henry B. Eyring said, “Whatever our age, capacity, church calling, or location, we are as one, called to the work to help Him in His harvest of souls until He comes again.”
Many times when we are called to serve, no matter the capacity, it is to teach us how to be like the Savior. Upon returning from my mission, I was asked the same question by most who wanted to know more about my experience: “How many people did you convert?” Embarrassed because I wrongly linked a number to my success, I would reply, “none.” However, after pondering on that question over the next few years, I realized I did have one conversion. Me. Because I was willing to serve, the Lord blessed me with opportunities to learn how to love and serve with compassion and faith. He was teaching me to be like Him and consequently I was converted to Him and His gospel. The Lord loves each one of us, individually. He will teach us to be as He is, if we allow Him. He wants each of us to reach our potential of exaltation. That can only happen through faith, repentance and striving to follow His example of living as He did.
Monday, March 11, 2019
Sunday, February 24, 2019
Compassion is Not a Weakness
The Dalai Lama said something very wise about how we treat
one another. He said, “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If
you want to be happy, practice compassion.” But in a world and culture where we
focus mainly on ourselves, compassion is last on the docket of things to try,
especially when you are searching for happiness.
Early in his ministry at the Sermon on the Mount, Christ
taught, “Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.”[i]
Mercy is something that is rarely given by others in this lifetime. And only
those who are aware of its effects can truly give it as a gift. Trials in my
own life have helped me to more completely understand what mercy and compassion
are. Learning to help others in need is an attribute that not only helps me be
happy through the hardships life deals out but at the same time helps others as
well.
I have learned that trials always come, especially the
hardest ones, when I least expect them. But as I’ve thought about it, this the
beauty of the whole predicament because we get an opportunity to refine
ourselves when we otherwise would never have taken that chance. I mean, think
about it. Who wants to deal with
challenging things anyway? About 10 or 15 years ago one such opportunity
presented itself to me. At first it was no big deal. But as time passed and things got worse the
humbling process began. I was ashamed, embarrassed, and heartbroken of what I
was dealing with. I didn’t feel like anyone understood. At one point I was even
harshly judged over things I could not control. I wanted my trial to go away
and never return. But, ironically if it did I would have thrown away the
opportunity to learn the personal need for compassion in the true sense.
I have realized that I am not alone. There are others out
there dealing with the same issue. I have learned my struggles do not define me
as a person. I understand a little bit more why people act as they do. The
other day I was talking with a friend who voiced her concern about the
struggles of a mutual friend. She said that she was worried because this friend
does not let others know about what she is going through. Understanding the
situation because I have acted similarly to my trial, I finished her
thought….”Because she just wants to feel normal.”
It is very natural to want to feel “normal”. But what is normal? I think a better
description, since we all are so different and normalcy is only defined by
those who judge, is that we just want to be loved, accepted, and supported. I mean, life is hard enough. The best way I have found to accomplish all
three is through compassion.
Compassion is when you demonstrate true, pure charity. This is when you are kind, loving,
serviceable, believing, and patient. We
don’t need to investigate or pry. When
people feel compassion and are ready, they will naturally open up. In the
musical Camelot, King Author describes his dream of a better world, “Violence
is not strength, and compassion is not weakness.”
Compassion does not require the empathy of a situation. It only requires the action of allowing
another to feel their burdens lighter because you were willing to openly show
love for them. One day, not too long ago, I went to an elderly lady’s home to
drop something off. In my heart I knew she did not get too many visitors. Now,
those who know me well understand I am not one for long conversations. But as
we concluded the business part of our conversation, I knew I needed to stay for
a while. We had a lovely conversation. I
was able to get to know this wonderful lady and the beautiful things she does
for others. I was able to set aside my own agenda and instead show compassion
by fulfilling a need for a sweet lady that more people need to get to know.
In her book, A Single Voice, Kristen M Oaks, said, “We need
to make time to spend with other people. Too much time alone allows us to dwell
on our problems and weaknesses and to magnify them. We can lose perspective and
begin to wallow in our personal problems…. Viewing our highly sophisticated
society with its often-fleeting relationships and our lack of concern for one
another, Mother Teresa said, ‘The biggest disease today is not leprosy or
cancer or tuberculosis, but rather the feeling of being unwanted, uncared for, deserted
by everybody.’”[ii]
Every month I have the great opportunity to go to a foot
zone therapist and work towards healing not only my body but my soul. As we
were talking about a specific heartache in my life, she compassionately gave me
some words to say to myself each day: “I allow myself to give and receive love
freely. I am safe to be open and generous with love.” Compassion is just
that. It is freely giving love to those
who need it. It is putting aside our own
desires and allowing others to feel comfort in their time of need. It is ultimately
acting as Christ does and showing mercy to those who are struggling.
Thomas S. Monson said, “We have no way of knowing when our
privilege to extend a helping hand will unfold before us.”[iii] Just like the trials in our own life can
refine us into better people, compassion can do the same. We just need to take
the opportunity.
When we show mercy and compassion to others, it will come
back to us tenfold. I have learned when
I show pure compassion to others it not only blesses their lives but mine as
well. I change my mindset from “me me me” to “let me do this for you”. In a
world centered on one’s self, it may seem that compassion is one of the last
things we should try to make our mark in society. But it is interesting, the
more you show kindness, love, patience, and acceptance to others the better
this world will become. And that itself is a strength that leaves a beautiful
mark.
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